When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast for dinner
every now and then. I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast
after a long, hard day at work.
On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs,
sausage, and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting
to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile
at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told
him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that
biscuit and eat every bite!
When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my
mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he
said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked
him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said,
"Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And
besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"
Life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm
not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just
like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to
accept each other’s faults - and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences
- is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting
relationship.
So please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burnt one will do just
fine! And PLEASE pass this along to someone who has enriched your life ... I
just did!
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